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怦然心动的一刻总是美好的，或许你正在纠结要不要和一个意大利人约会，那么有十大理由能让你大彻大悟（了解更多点击底部“阅读全文”）。不过，无论怎么从文字了解，也不如亲身尝试，当然这方面意大利男人和女人就会有很大的区别——女士优先——就让我们先看看意大利女孩，若你希望给他们留下好印象，或许你要在约会前做点功课。

It is always beautiful if you meet someone and feel in love. Maybe you are still struggling whether you should date an Italian guy/girl, so there are 10 reasons (click "Read More" at the bottom to know more) to help you solve this riddle; however, the best way is always to try it, but there are a lot of different things involved in first date -- ladies first -- let’s see how to impress a Italian girl.

意大利人都是时尚先锋，和意大利女孩约会某种程度上是一场“品味考试”。意大利男人是及其注重格调的人，要打败这些“潜在的竞争对手”，你就得在自己身上做些投资了——再怎么，一件漂亮的衬衫、一条新裤子总是必须的吧？

Italians are stylish, so what you wear counts for quite a bit when you’re being assessed by an Italian girl. Italian guys are snappy dressers, so in order to compete with them, you’d do well to invest in a nice shirt or a new pair of pants.

见到意大利女孩，谈天气也好，谈交通也好，千万不要谈论政治；最好也不要谈论宗教的事情（尽管他们大多数都信天主教）。信不信教是一回事儿，他们就是不喜欢谈这些，至于为什么，大概就只有他们自己知道，或许是因为太无趣或者太无聊吧。

In Italy, when you're trying to impress an Italian girl, the main thing you want to steer clear of is politics. You'll probably also want to avoid talking about religion – whether the Italian girl you're chatting up seems religious or not, Italians as a general rule take religion very seriously (and the vast majority of them identify as Catholic).

意大利女人是自信膨爆的生物，她们也不喜欢唯唯诺诺的男人；如果想打动她们，你至少要做到敢于表达，无论自己的观点是对是错。

As I noted recently, Italian women are confident creatures – but that doesn’t mean they like meek men. To impress an Italian girl, you’ve got to be sure of yourself, confident in your opinions, and not afraid to speak your mind.

当然自信不等于自大无礼，保持绅士风度能给你加不少分。为女孩子开门这些细节总是必须，最好能让她感觉自己一直处于话题中心。事先做好约会计划会让他们觉得你可靠，单独约会的话带束花总没错。

In addition to that, however, you’ve also got to remember that chivalry remains a high priority in Italy – so plan on opening doors for that special lady and treating her as if she’s the center of your universe. And when you’re out on your date with her, be prepared to pay for everything. Oh, and if you get past the group date (outlined below) to a first date with just her alone, show up with flowers.

用中国人的话来说，意大利人都是“妈妈宝“。在他们心中，母亲就是“神”。如果你希望通过批评“妈妈”来给她们留下印象——无论是你的、她的、还是别人的——那么你就是作死。

The idea of the “mama's boy” may be more stereotypically familiar in Italy, but throughout the country the Italian mama is something of a holy figure. Easily one of the worst things you could do when trying to impress an Italian girl would be to criticize anyone's mother – yours, hers, or anyone else's.

意大利女孩约会通常都是从小群体开始，第一次约会时就算她和你约在一个吃aperitivo（餐前菜）的小馆也不意外，当然通常她的朋友都会自请不来（所以最好你也能带些朋友来给你“壮势”）。

Italians typically go out on first dates in small groups, rather than just the two people in the would-be couple. So even if you ask an Italian girl if she’d like to meet up for an aperitivo don’t be surprised if she brings a couple close girlfriends along. (Which means you should be prepared to have a couple of your friends on call to join you as well.)

不过你如果觉得她们不敢和你独处，那就大错特错了，她们只是怕没话说尴尬而已。另一方面，她们也想看看你能不能融入她的圈子，她能不能融入你的圈子。如果你们有了第二次约会，那就不仅仅是你自己的胜利，也是你朋友们的胜利。

It’s not that she’s scared of being alone with you, it’s that there’s far less chance for awkward silences in a group – plus, this gives everyone the chance to see how they like not only the potential partner but also that person’s closest pals. Getting a second or third date usually means she not only likes you, but she likes (and approves of) your friends, too.在中国的意大利人几乎都会说英语，但你若能说几句意大利语，不就更能增加女孩们的亲切感吗？意大利人把他们的语言视为世界上最值得学的语言，你就算懂一两个词组都能让女孩们觉得感动。

More and more Italians (especially younger generations) speak at least a little English these days, but knowing a little bit of the Italian language definitely won’t hurt your chances. Italians seem to know that their language isn’t exactly the most lucrative one to learn, so they’re usually touched by anyone who makes an effort to learn a few phrases.

当然只会说“你好”（ciao）是不行的，学会说些甜言蜜语才能赢得他们的芳心。当然，别从谷歌翻译这些地方找那些不地道的词组，从你的意大利朋友那里学几句好听的话当然最好。

To impress an Italian girl, get beyond the simple “ciao” and learn how to give her a compliment. Ask around to make sure you’re translating whatever compliment you want to deliver properly, but for the most part stumbling good-naturedly over a phrase you learned just for her is also pretty endearing.Despite all the pointers listed in this article, above all you want to be genuinely yourself when you’re attempting to impress an Italian girl. Aside from the fact that if you’re pretending to be someone you’re not in the early stages, that’s not going to end well when she finds out you’re someone else later on – Italians just tend to be more up-front when it comes to dating in general.

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