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如何做出正确的决定？

How to make the right decision?

布涵诺丁 上师Can we claim that we have always been the masters of our decisions?

我们总能声称掌控着自己的决定吗？

It is difficult to state to have the full control over our outer life, because in reality it is not in our hands.The only thing we can control is how to behave inside our lives.Making a decision it is already in itself an act that creates tension, stiffness.

要说我们完全掌控了自己的外在生活是很难的，

因为在现实中，这不是我们可以掌控的。

我们唯一能掌控的事情就是如何在内心生活中表现。

做决定本身就是一个行为，创造出了紧张和僵硬。

Through the mind, through thinking and discussing with ourselves we can not see and decide anything. Wanting to decide it means therefore to be blind.

It is better to wait and let God cook the situation for us.

通过头脑，通过思考和跟自己讨论，

我们无法看清、决定任何事。

想要做决定就意味着盲目。

更好的办法是等待，

让神为我们酝酿这个情景。

When it is ready the very existence will give us a sign.If we are patient, it will appear.If it does not appear it mean it is not yet the right time,and then you have to stay where you are.This is why Maulana, to the people who ask him questions about fundamental issues of their personal life such as divorce or job,most of the times he invites them to wait forty days or three months and then to look at the situation again.

当这个情景准备就绪，

它的存在会给我们一个信号。

如果我们耐心，信号就会出现。

如果它还没有出现，说明最好的时机还没有到，

所以你必须留在原地。

这就是为什么莫兰纳（Maulana）被有些人问及

最基本的个人生活事件，如离婚或工作时，

大多数情况下，他会邀请提问者静待四十天或者三个月，

然后重新审视情境。

If you are questioning yourself about what to do, it means you are not in the present. When you are in the moment, the situation is always easy, clear, it unfolds and speaks for itself: it does not need our decision.

如果你在质疑自己该怎么做，

这意味着你没有在当下。

当你就在此刻时，情况总是会简单而清晰，

它自己显露出来，不言而喻：

这不需要我们来做决定。



In the present

it is all natural and obvious.

The river runs along its course, it has not to decide anything.

活在当下，一切都是自然而然，显而易见的。

河流沿着河道流动，不需要决定任何事。

We need to give an answer to our life not with a ‘decision’, but with an ‘inspiration’. And that can only happen when you are sinked in the present.

我们需要给自己的生活提供一个答案，

不是用某个“决定”，而是用某种“灵感”。

而只有当你沉浸在当下，这才会发生。

Let’s say

like this: whatever each one decides to do, is the right thing. Knowing this gives us peace.

我们这样说：无论一个人决定去做什么，都是正确的。

如果我们知道这会带来平静。

Every decision you make is the right one, because it is the only one that you can take. If we knew in advance the outcome of our decisions and actions, we’d all be saints, but as it is not so, we must fall, hit our head and become wise through the wrong decisions.

你做的每一个决定都是正确的，

因为这是你能做的唯一决定。

如果我们提前知道决定和行动会产生的结果，

我们就都是圣人了。

但既然我们不是，我们一定会跌倒，

磕着自己的脑袋，

通过做错误的决定来变得聪明。

It must be so because the divine plan realizes itself through us.If we are in truth we can not do anything wrong and no one can do anything wrong to us.

一定是如此，因为神的计划是通过我们来自动呈现的。

如果我们活在真理中，就不会做错任何事，

并且，没有人会对我们做错任何事。

Being in truth means to praise the Lord and being absorbed in the practice.In this way, we will not advance any more in life under the weight of our emotions and our thoughts.

活在真理中意味着去赞扬神，并沉浸在修习之中。

这样我们就再也不会背着情感和思虑的重压在生命中前进。



We will not feel alone, but accompanied, beloved, embraced. This will bring the light necessary to have a clear vision and always to know what to do. The next step will be open in front of us by itself.

我们不会感到孤单，而是被陪伴，被爱，被拥抱。

这会让我们拥有必要的洞见，永远能清晰地知道要做什么。

下一步就会自动在我们面前敞开。

You have to understand the difference between decision and intention. From one thought the idea is born, and when the idea meets emotion we have a desire. When this is repeated it becomes an intention. It should be made not a decision but an intention. Then you have to wait for it to open.

你必须了解决定（decision）

和意图（intention）的区别。

一个想法从念头中诞生，

当想法遇到情感，我们就有了欲望。

当它被重复的时候，就形成了意图。

这应该成为意图，而不是决定。

然后你必须等待它自己打开。

God is rich and infinitely generous.

The outside world will bow in front of us.

神是富有的，无限慷慨。

外在的世界会在我们面前臣服。

So you do not have fear to take the wrong decision.

Concentrate instead on what is important.

Important is to have the courage to live a true life, a joyful life.

所以，你不用恐惧会做出错误的决定。

反之，专注在重要的事情上。

重要的是，

要有勇气活出真实的生活，

喜悦的生活。

When you are joyful with yourself there is no more the question of what to do.

You will see.

You will be able to see what is right and what is wrong for yourself.

当你对自己感到喜悦，

就不会有任何“该怎么做”的疑问了。

你会明白的。

你将能够看到对自己而言

什么是正确的，什么是错误的。

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