你的身边有能量吸血鬼吗？怎么保护自己？How to Recognize An Energy Vampire

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How to Recognize An Energy Vampire A...



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I will start off by saying that everyone that is reading this article has most likely had an experience with an energy vampire living in the type of society we do today.

首先我想说，在当今我们生活的社会中，每位阅读这篇文章的人，很有可能与能量吸血鬼已经打过照面了。

All of us experiencing this at different levels, whether it be a relationship where you were so manipulated you started questioning your own sanity. Having to scribe and keep track of each moment because this person was convicting you the sky was actually purple or simply a friend or coworker not being happy for fortunate moments within your life. It is the feeling of being drained of your energy, your natural joy and life force by someone around you. You can feel them deliberately or unintentionally sapping and mutating their surroundings into negativity.

我们不同程度地经历过一种被操控的关系，甚至你开始怀疑自己的心智。每个时刻都有迹可循，这个人会说服你天空是紫色的或者在生活中的幸运时刻，你的朋友、同事并没有为你感到开心。感觉你的能量被耗尽，自然喜悦的生命力量被有些人纠缠。你能感觉到他们有意或无意地削弱环境，变成负面能量。

Our main mission here on this planet is to love one another. To join hands and head and build the higher vibration to shake away all that is lacking. This energy sapping feeling has to start somewhere in my opinion, originating from a general expectation for the other person (the energy vampire) to share this feeling, this mission of mutual elation.

我们在地球上的主要任务是彼此相爱。携手打造更高的振动频率，摆脱所有的不足。在我看来，这种消耗能量的感觉源于对其他人的期待，期待他们（能量吸血鬼）共同分享这个任务的喜悦。

The current societal construct has been built on the opposite ideology telling us unconsciously on a daily basis since birth, that when we do not get the emotional energy we need (that should be from sharing) we must then go into dominating or competing with others. An unconscious competition for energy underlies all energy vampire conflicts. By dominating or manipulating others, they get the extra energy they think they need. It feels good to them but both parties are damaged in the conflict. The truth is always inherently looming though, that we never have to control, overpower or manipulate anyone or any situation because each person has a direct line to source energy, the most abundant and powerful source of energy there is.

当前社会架构是建立在矛盾的意识形态上，这是我们出生后每天不知不觉发生的，当我们没有得到我们需要的情绪能量（应该是从分享中得到），我们必须去控制或与他人竞争。一种无意识的能量竞争是因为所有能量吸血鬼以冲突为基础。通过控制或操纵他人，会得到他们认为自己需要的额外能量。当双方发生冲突或受损，他们感觉很好。真相总是若隐若现，但本质上，我们从不需要控制、压制或操纵任何人或任何事，因为每个人都有一个直接的能量来源，那是最丰富和强大的能量来源。

So what are the different types of psychic vampires and how do you spot them?

那么，精神吸血鬼有哪些不同类型，该如何认出他们？

Poor me’s make us feel guilty and responsible for them.

可怜型：让我们感到内疚和对他们有负责

This is the person that if you have the flu they have had it way worse than you or even the one who constantly has the bad relationship, financial state, and some looming affliction to top it off.Isn’t it coincidental that the ones who have not been awakened to their line to source are also sick, broke and out of luck-love? Or is that a coincidence at all? These people I see the most frequently but are also the least harmful as most are doing it from a non-malicious and most of the time unconscious standpoint. Although I have experienced some who this is the tip of the iceberg to reel you in to the layers of manipulation tactics to have you as their constant victim and host. When you don’t show up for their pity party this will come full swing with their arsenal of guilt trips to try to sap energy and attention. Always try to keep in mind this poor me attitude simply stems from not receiving enough love from within.

如果你有流感，这种人的情况会比你更糟，可能是长期不良的人际关系、糟糕的财务状况和一些隐秘的痛苦。不是巧合吗——这些没有意识到他们的能量来源的人也病了，破产了，缺乏幸运和爱吗？或是，所有都是巧合？我最常见到的这些人，大部分是最无害和无恶意的，大部分时间里他们的观点是无意识的。虽然我经历的人只是冰山一角，但他们会将你层层卷入控制，用手段让你成为他们的牺牲品和宿主。当你不出现在他们的同情派对上，他们会紧接着使用内疚的武器来削弱你的能量和注意力。请牢牢记住，可怜型的态度就是源于自我无法从内部得到足够的爱。

The Aloof sap energy by showing indifference.

冷漠型：通过表现冷漠消耗（他人的）能量

This person is the one who is the too cool for school guy or gal that will indirectly without saying anything make you question whether what you are doing should be celebrated at all. They wallow in their indifference just long enough to psychologically affect your processes to where the tables and attention is turned towards them instead of your original source of joy. This is the guy who is completely but quietly disgusted by the raise you just got or the amazing lesson you have learned in life and want to share. There is also a siphoning feeling from what you are doing to them because their main tactic is to stop the flow of energy as a control mechanism.

这个人觉得自己比校园里（正值青春的）男孩、女孩都出色，什么都不说也能间接地让你怀疑你是否该庆祝你所做的事。他们沉浸在自己的冷漠中，只要时间足够长就能影响你的心理，让你把注意力转向他们，取代原来的快乐源泉。通过提高你自己、吸取生活中成长的教训，学会分享，这家伙将被完全地、悄悄地反感。你对他们还会有一种被吞噬的感觉，因为他们控制机制中主要策略的是阻止能量流动。

Interrogators drain energy by judging and questioning.

质问型：通过指责和质疑消耗（他人的）能量。

These people are the ones who are incessantly and persistently intent to be right at all cost. Therefore it could be something that is generally known and they counteract what you are saying by simply wording different or more precise. These are the ones who are constantly stepping on your heels to try to get one imaginary (non-existent) step ahead of you by cutting you down and proving you “wrong”. Their objective is control and ego boosting since this is coming from insecurity. Their tactic is to form a mental separation from the universal truth and to have you question your inner compass and knowing so that they can be in control over you, themselves and the surrounding situation.

这些人不惜任何代价，不断持续地证明自己是正确的。通常，他用不同或更精准的措辞来反对你。他会不断地把你视为（不存在的）假想敌，踩在脚底，或者通过打击你、证明你的“错误”来领先你一步。他们的目的是满足控制欲和小我，因为这来自不安全感。他们的策略是把你的思想从普遍真理中分离，使你质疑你的内心指引和认知，然后他们就可以控制你自己和周围情况。Intimidators steal energy from others by threat or fear.

威吓型：通过威胁或恐惧来窃取别人的能量。

In my opinion this is the deepest embedding vampire and the most sophisticated. This person needs to get close enough to know your personal fears to use them against you. This is a very primal, reptilian brain tactic that if you are in fear then they hold the steering wheel to your decisions and life force energy. This tactic is not to be taken lightly and often follows with a bribing system. For example: If you don’t do this you will compromise your or other’s safety. You wouldn’t want that would you? Very malicious. Very deliberate. Perhaps showing the mirror of what the true comfort to any situation would be instead of the fear. In my opinion, separation or ignoring is the best counter for this one.

在我看来，这是最深入、最复杂的吸血鬼。这个人需要与你足够亲密，用你个人的恐惧来打击你。这是一个非常原始的、爬虫脑的策略，如果你在恐惧中，他们将掌握决定和生命能量的方向盘。对这个策略不可掉以轻心，它常常伴随着一个贿赂机制。例如：如果你不这样做你会危及自己或他人的安全。你不想这样做吧，你想吗？这是非常恶毒和深思熟虑的手段。只有镜像地反映出什么是真正地平静，才能取代恐惧。在我看来，分开或无视是最好的方法。Naturally the next question to ask would be:

下一个问题会问：I always use this easy three step system:

我经常使用以下简单的三步制：

1. Try to uplift the vampire to a higher vibration.

1.努力提升到比吸血鬼更高的振动频率。

All things either come from love or are a cry for love. If the person trying to sap energy from you is looking for love which is the feeling of connection to their own line to source then remind them of this. Whether it be through an act of kindness or simply offering words of empowerment to their situation. This technique works the best for the poor me type.

万物都来自爱或是为爱而呼。如果有人试图消耗你的能量，为了寻找自己连接到爱的感觉，请提醒他们这点。无论是通过一个善意的行为，还是简单地告知他们的状况。这种方法对可怜型的吸血鬼最有效。

2. If they are resistant to the vibration raising, you can always protect yourself.

2。如果他们抵抗频率的提升，你仍然可以保护自己。

If you try to offer them love, they resist this process you can always go into protection mode. Most people see this as building a wall, shutting down or visualizing a bubble of white light surrounding you. While I think the visualization is handy because it brings you back to your own line of connection and remembrance that you are a powerful extension of source, this is just a band-aid over the splinter from my perspective. Since it is only a temporary fix to the situation, if you want to keep this person around. The situation get sticky because we have expectations and they are understandable and universal expectations. Recognizing that this is independent of our personal experience. You then can see that you have to be on the same frequency of an energy vampire to even become the host.

如果你想给他们爱，他们拒绝的过程中，你可以进入保护模式。大多数人认为这像建造一堵墙，把外界阻碍在外或观想灯泡的白光围绕着你。而我认为观想更方便，因为它将你带回自己的连接和怀抱，你是一个强大的延展源，从我的角度来看，就像创可贴贴在伤口上。因为它只是一个暂时的情况，除非你想这个人继续存在。情况变得棘手的因为我们期望他们是可以理解的和符合宇宙的预期。认识到这些是我们每个人的独立经验。然后你可以看到，你只有处于能量吸血鬼相同的频率上，才会成为宿主。

Another “tactic” would be a healing exercise I like to do when I am offended or feel let down by someone which is to ask myself what false belief I am holding to allow myself to feel let down to begin with.

另一个“策略”是一个我喜欢的疗愈练习，当我生气或对某些人感到沮丧的时候，我问自己，是否坚持了错误信念，让自己一开始就感到失望了。3. Cut ties of communication or simply ignore them.

3. 切断连接或完全无视他们。

Lastly and I say this because I truly believe we are here as mirrors for one another to help heal one another through sharing but if this person is persistent enough to be causing you mental and even physical anguish then it is time to separate yourself whether you do that physically or mentally. Start focusing on the type of relationships you would like to surround yourself with and build your environment up with the frequencies you would like to be vibrating at, this is indirectly energy vampire repellent for two reasons.

最后，我说这个方法是因为我真的相信，我们是彼此的镜子，通过分享帮助疗愈彼此，但如果这个人持续不断地给你造成心理甚至生理的痛苦，无论从身体还是精神的角度，是时候分开了。尝试关注在你喜欢围绕的朋友类型上，以及建立的环境把自己包围在你想成为的振动频率上，这是能量吸血鬼间接排斥的两个理由。

One is that energy vampires need a reaction or your negative attention to continue being vampiric and two they need to have you be in the frequency of being the victim. So in my opinion it is useless to try to justify yourself by teaming up with others “against” this person like a good guy-bad guy scenario because let’s be honest this is multidimensional. Everyone is neither all good or all bad, we are just in different levels of healing and perception. If you start to focus on what you want and less of what they are doing, you will be surprised at what ease these people disappear. When you listen to your inner heart compass, your connection to source, you will be surprised at what “power” you have “over” them because the truth is there is no higher power than another. There is no control, only oneness. Just keep following your joy.

第一，能量吸血鬼需要你的反应或负面的关注，才能继续成为吸血鬼。第二，他们需要你处在受害者的频率。所以我认为，试图通过与他人和睦相处来”反对“这个人是无用的，像一个好人和坏人的剧本，我们必须承认事物是多面的。没有一个人是全好或全坏的，我们只是在不同程度的疗愈和觉知中。如果你开始关注在你想要的东西，而不是别人在做的事情上，你将惊讶这些人的消失。当你聆听你的内心指引，与源头连接，你将会惊讶你的“力量”能对抗他们，因为事实是没有其他的力量比这个更高。没有控制，只有合一。只要跟随你的喜悦。

To sum all of this up, the dynamics to any vampiric situation are quite simple as you can see, they start trying to draw energy from you, you start to feel the drama from their control tactic which temporarily leads you away from that sweet connection point to source. The more you partake in their lower vibration the more ”power” you give them.

总结一下，正如你所见，吸血鬼的动态情况是非常简单（辨识）的，他们开始试图从你身上吸取能量，你开始从他们的控制中体验戏剧性，让你暂时远离那些美好连接的来源。你越是参与他们较低的振动频率，你越把你的“力量”给他们。

No one wants to admit it but the truth is we have ALL been energy vampires at one point or another because we have been programmed to gain energy through childhood traumas and societal programming rather than the abundant all oneness. The scale and frequency to which we perform energy vampirism is unique to each person but the first step to healing humanity it to remind ourselves and others that we are not only loved but a channel for the universal all knowing, all powerful interconnected source. We should dive deep and become aware of the subtle energies around us and try to understand where the false belief is within your subconscious to cause this to situation to arise, then once recognized replacing it with the truth. When we do this there is just not any time or space for anything other than soaking up those warm, yummy, joyful frequencies. Radiating and sharing these accelerating frequencies with everyone surrounding within this universal now moment.

没有人愿意承认，但事实是我们在一开始或多或少都是能量吸血鬼，因为我们已被编写了这样的程序，通过童年创伤和社会规划以获得能量而不是与所有的丰盛合一。我们扮演能量吸血鬼的规模和频率是每个人独有的，我们不仅爱，更是一个全知的宇宙通道，是所有强大互联的源泉。我们应该深入了解我们周围的微妙能量，试着去理解潜意识中的错误信念，导致这种情况出现，那么一旦认知到，它就被真理替代。当我们这样做，在任何时间或空间，我们都沉浸在那些温暖的、愉快的、幸福的频率中。发散和分享它们，可以加速当下宇宙围绕在我们周围的频率。



保护自己不受能量吸血鬼的伤害，推荐水晶：绿东陵、红宝石、拉长石、黑曜石，随身佩戴或携带，靠近心脏最佳。

原文版权： Jocelyn Daher

翻译&编辑：Joanna

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