别说你没遇上爱情，你只是在选择题前栽了跟头
一生中，会有很多人来到我们的生命中，有些人匆匆路过，有些人驻足停留，最后只有一个独一无二的TA会留下来，陪你...
一生中，会有很多人来到我们的生命中，有些人匆匆路过，有些人驻足停留，最后只有一个独一无二的TA会留下来，陪你享受人生旅途。
最近杰克船长Johnny Depp（约翰尼·德普）的离婚新闻闹得沸沸扬扬，从一开始的婆媳矛盾到疑似家暴，放浪不羁的船长感情史上又多了令人唏嘘的一笔。
从他波澜不断的感情史中，也许我们该好好想想如何慎重地选择另一半。
你约会的男孩 VS 你嫁的男人
The boy you date asks you to “hang out”, which involves less commitment than a date. He wants to have fun with no strings attached.
The man you will marry asks you out on dates and he is clear about his intentions with you. He wants to be with you and will let you know where you’re headed.
男朋友会约你“出去玩”，但不是约会，他只是单纯的想玩乐，并没有其他什么意思；
而你可以嫁的那个人找你出去约会时，他的目的很明确，他想和你呆在一起，他想让你知道下一步的计划。
The boy you date cares too much about looks, and will tease you for looking sloppy until you fix yourself back up to his standards.
The man you will marry understands that everyone's makeup won't be perfect all the time and won’t hurt your feelings or love you less if your weight fluctuates or you have a bad hair style or forget to shave.
男朋友会过多地在意外表，如果你看上去乱糟糟的，他可能会取笑你，直到你打扮得符合他的标准；
而你可以嫁的那个人，他懂得外貌不可能每时每刻都完美，他不会伤害你的感情，更不会因为你的体重波动或者你糟糕的发型就少爱你一点。
The boy you date will say “I’m sorry” because he just wants you to cheer up or stop nagging him. He says “I love you” because he doesn’t want to lose you, even though he doesn’t really feel the meaning of the words.
The man you will marry will say “I’m sorry” because he honestly is. He says “I love you” because he truly means it, and wants you to feel the love in every minute of your life.
男朋友会说“对不起”，但他只是想迎合你或者让你别再唠叨了。他也会说“我爱你”，但只是因为他不想失去你，即使他并不真的懂这句话的含义；
而你可以嫁的那个人说“对不起”是因为他真的觉得错了，他说“我爱你”也是真的这么觉得的，他希望你生命中的每一分钟都能感受到他的爱。
The boy you date will expect to have things done for him because that’s what his mom does, and that’s what other girls have done for him. He doesn’t have to take care of himself.
The man you will marry will know how to take care of himself: how to cook, clean, do laundry, pay bills or even more, because he’s already a man.
男朋友会希望你帮他把事情都做好，毕竟他妈妈和其他姑娘都这么做的，他不懂得照顾他自己；
但是你可以嫁的那个人知道怎么照顾自己，会做饭、打扫、洗衣服、付账单，甚至更多，因为他已经是一个男人了。
The boy you date never gives you security. You don’t know how he feels or what he’s up to when he’s not with you, and your friends might even have money riding on how long you’ll last.
The man you will marry will make you feel secure. You’ll always know he loves you, you’ll be able to trust him, and you’ll know that you two can make it through anything.
男朋友不会给你安全感，当他不在你身边的时候，你不知道他怎么想的或者他在干什么，甚至你的朋友还会打赌你多久会跟他分手；
但你可以嫁的那个人会给你足够的安全感。你总是知道他爱你，你可以相信他，你知道你们俩会共同克服任何困难。
就在Amber（艾梅柏）将Depp推到众矢之的的风口，大家都认为他是家暴渣男时，和Depp一起携手走过14年的前妻Vanessa（凡妮莎），虽然已分手，但她向美国娱乐新闻网站TMZ发了亲笔信。
“My dad is the sweetest and most loving person I know. He's been nothing but a wonderful father to my little brother and I, and everyone who knows him would say the same.”
“我爸爸是我认识的最棒最有爱的人，他对我和我弟弟来说都是一个超棒的老爸，我相信，所有认识他的人都会这样说。”
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